Assalamualaikum W.B.T . its been quite sometime eversince i publish and posted something..its not like i have lost all my writting idea..just been busy lately..well what i would like to share today as my point of view..my personal opinion regarding trust and its definition based on what i saw from my experienced , like my friends relationship and hell even my own life story.. T.R.U.S.T. = TRUST . Trust is a backbone of anykind of relationship . Trust is an important factor in any relationship. Without
trust no relation will survive. Read on and learn how to build trust in a
relationship.
When someone breaks your trust it is hard to believe in them
again. Relationships go upside down when faith goes away. Faith has the
capacity to move mountains. Trust is what makes a relationship meaningful. Keep
intact the trust and make life less complicated. It is not hard to build a
foundation of trust.
Be honest
Honesty is the best policy. A relationship blossoms if both
partners are honest towards each other. Being honest makes the other person
trust you. Dishonesty can be harmful for any relationship. It is true that you
will take time to build the trust but it is not worth to lose trust with one
mistake. What is the use of being in a relationship if you cannot devote to it
sincerely?
Please do not lie to me, unless you are absolutely sure I
will never find out the truth,' the well known quote will make you think. Being
truthful is like climbing the first step of the ladder called 'trust'. A lie is
hard to find out but once it is out in the open, the relationship will suffer.
Telling your spouse that you are in a meeting or in the middle of working situation when you are actually in the coffe shop
with friends is like betraying the trust. Even the smallest lie can devastate a
relationship.
Keep your promises
If you have given a word to your girlfriend that you will
meet her on the weekend, keep your word. If you have promised your husband that
you will accompany him to his friend's party, do not step back. Keeping your
promises will make your partner believe in you. Your dear one will trust you
for the rest of his or her life.
Show that you care
Faith will go deeper and deeper if you really care for the
other person. Do you regularly ask your wife whether she had her lunch properly
at her work place? How often do you plan a romantic date for your girlfriend?
Care can be exhibited through words, emotions and gestures. Trust is a greater
emotion than love. If trust is there love will follow.
Be responsible
Relationship is a sweet responsibility. A trustworthy
partner is always responsible for his or her behavior. Be responsible for your
actions. If your relationship is not sailing smooth, it is your responsibility
to do something about it. Talk to each other and face the adversities together.
Your romantic life will be awesome if you have faith in each other. Being
responsible is an important aspect of developing trust.
Tips to build trust in a relationship
Believing in oneself is the key to build trust. Unless you
have confidence in yourself, it is hard to trust anyone else. Distrust can
break relationships. Trust is the backbone of the eternal love. Here are few
things you should keep in mind to make your relationship work.
1. Be a good
listener. Lend an ear to your partner carefully when he or she speaks.
2. Avoid
disappointing your partner by breaking promises.
3. Communication is
the key. Make your expectations clear to your partner and know his or hers.
4. Respect your
partner. Respecting each other is necessary to build trust in a relationship.
5. Avoid betraying
your partner's trust by exposing his or her secrets to someone else.
6. If you have hurt
your partner's feelings, go and say sorry. Apologising will make them to keep
faith in you.
7. Appreciate good
qualities and compliment your partner often.
9. Be reliable. Being
reliable will make your partner bank upon you.
10. Be sure that you
share your feelings, your thoughts, your dreams and your aspirations with your
partner.
11. Let your partner
know what you did through out the day. Let him or her know that you got a call
from an old friend even if it is insignificant.
12. Avoid keeping
secrets from your partner.
13. Learn to forgive
and forget. Forgiveness has the power to mend even the trickiest of situations.
Let your actions match your words
Learning to trust and building trust are two sides of the
same coin. Someone has said, 'You may be deceived if you trust too much, but
you will live in torment if you don't trust enough.' You have chosen your
partner as your soul mate as you have faith in him or her. Let your sweetheart
know how much you trust and how much you care. Keep the spark of love alive
forever.
--sharm--
2nd January 2016.
top floor utc
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